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Awakening Women Podcast

Leanne Oaten is a former counsellor with an educational background in Counselling Psychology and 9 years of experience guiding women to rise above toxic relationship dynamics keeping them stuck so they can truly flourish. She now offers coaching and guidance for how to disentangle the cycle of covert intimate relationship abuse and manipulation with a narcissistic partner with a unique, no bullshit, and empowered approach. Topics discussed: Covert narcissistic Abuse Codependent patterns Self Healing Navigating life with a narcissistic partner Understanding the tactics and patterns For info about her programs visit leanneoaten.com Connect with her on Instagram: @leanne.oaten @awakeningwomensupport Join the Awakening Women Support community on Facebook by searching #awakeningwomensupport in the Facebook search bar.
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Now displaying: 2021
Dec 30, 2021

When you start to see the tactics and pull away from the relationship, begin to leave, or actually leave, get ready for some new tactics toward your children shared with this person to escalate. 

Work with me: 

End the Cycle Intensive: Join the February 30 Day Intensive: This is for women who want a fast-action BootCamp style program to learn the cycle of narcissistic abuse, the tactics used, and how to disengage from the dynamics, and includes the strategy to develop your exit plan. Join the intensive.

 

End the Cycle Evolve: Want support right away? This is for women who want to be part of a community and receive coaching on ending the cycle, mastering their boundaries, and support after they exit the relationship (and staying out of the relationship) as well as executing no-contact after separation.  Enroll in ETCE. 

Dec 23, 2021

This episode has a trigger warning. We are discussing sensitive topics including childhood sexual abuse. 

If you're experiencing sexual coercion in your relationship, and feel pressure, followed by poor treatment if you don't engage sexually with your partner, this episode is for you.

 

Ways to work with me: 

February 2022: End The Cycle 30 Day Intensive. Limited spots are available. (I mentioned January in this episode, however, it has been postponed until February)

ETC in 30-day intensive is the ETC process taught week by week as a guided experience. Includes a Facebook group + support, and group coaching/ Q & A call at the end. Register to save your spot here. 

 

Considering joining my 6 Month ETC-Evolve program? 

Start with the Pain to Power Bootcamp. After you take the bootcamp you’ll be invited to join the program. REGISTER HERE.

 

Want to take more of my classes and hear recordings of past seminars I’ve taught my ETC students? Start with the Awakening Women Masterclass + MP3 Collection 

Dec 16, 2021

A common abuse tactic that is very difficult to spot is a partner who is continuing to behave abusively trying to force you to move past it and let it go. His sense of entitlement to unearned forgiveness can leave you feeling extremely frustrated and wondering why you can't just 'forgive'. Learn why this is not possible in this episode. 

The episode on why therapy is not recommended in abusive relationships: 

Why Therapy Doesn't Work in Abusive Relationship 

Considering joining my 6 Month ETC-Evolve program? 

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Want to take more of my classes and hear recordings of past seminars I’ve taught my ETC students? Start with the Awakening Women Masterclass + MP3 Collection 

 

Dec 9, 2021

 

In this episode learn why too much empathy can keep us stuck in situations that are toxic for us, and how to start balancing empathy with boundaries and logic. 

 

Ways to work with me:

February 2022: End The Cycle 30 Day Intensive. Limited spots available.

This is the ETC process taught week by week as a guided experience. Includes a Facebook group, community support, and group coaching/ Q & A call at the end of the program. Register to save your spot here.    *January was mentioned in this episode, however, it has been postponed until February

 

Considering joining my 6 Month ETC-Evolve program? 

Start with the Pain to Power Bootcamp. After you take the bootcamp you’ll be invited to join the program. REGISTER HERE.

 

Want to take more of my classes and hear recordings of past seminars I’ve taught my ETC students? Start with the Awakening Women Masterclass + MP3 Collection 

 

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Dec 3, 2021

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*Note: I have changed the ETC intensive to start on February 6th but mentioned January on the podcast.

Most women in a relationship experiencing narcissistic abuse can attest to feeling confused by their partner's sometimes wonderful behavior. Because they can sometimes do nice things and behave with acts of love, women stay in self-doubt about whether the relationship really is abusive, or if it's just something wrong with them. 

Tune in to learn why the nice/mean behavior is the hallmark of abuse, and rest assured, your confusion is a normal response to these unpredictable behaviors. 

Nov 25, 2021

Are you doing more work to get your partner to change than he's doing to change? This includes emotional work, ruminating, thinking about the relationship, worrying about the relationship, trying to find help and resources, sending your partner links and blogs to read when he is doing nothing to take leadership on his own.

It won't work. 

In order to truly change we have to want to change who we are and be 100% committed to the process to make those changes happen. 

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Nov 18, 2021

Let's talk about covert abuse as I define it: A repetitive pattern of hurtful behaviour that is explained away with "You took it wrong" or "I didn't mean it that way" which leaves you questioning yourself and frankly, feeling like you ARE going crazy. 

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Nov 11, 2021

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In this episode, Leanne covers 12 ways to know if you're with a covert abuser who likes to be known as a "good guy".

If you find yourself often feeling badly around your partner, yet everyone else thinks he's so wonderful, this episode is for you!

 

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Nov 4, 2021

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In this episode, we're talking about 5 phrases you may hear often from your narcissistic partner, and not realize is a form of gaslighting. 

Gaslighting is a pattern of emotionally abusive behavior that is primarily seen in pathological personality disorders like high narcissism and NPD. It is a pattern of behavior, not one-off misunderstandings or genuine incidents of forgetfulness. 

Oct 28, 2021

Join me for another 'walk with me' episode and learn why being too much in your feminine, empathic, emotional energy is keeping you stuck in a toxic dynamic, and what you need to do to balance your 'feeling' side with your logical, decisive side to change your relationship dance. We all need a healthy level of narcissism to be successful in life, and most women in narcissistic relationships fall on the extreme low- end of the spectrum with something Craig Maklin calls "echoism".  So, maybe you need to be more narcissistic!

Bootcamp is on NOW! Join us here. 

Oct 21, 2021

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If money is a barrier for you to getting to a healthier place, or possibly leaving the relationship, this is the episode for you. This is a real talk edition where I am calling you in to rise up to your full power in the area of money and finances. 

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Oct 14, 2021

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This is a walking unedited episode where I'm speaking to you from flow as I walk in nature with my dogs. This message is for the woman who is DONE with her current way of being and is ready for real change. 

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Oct 7, 2021

This is something I hear about often from women I work with, that their partner is in therapy and comes home to share things the therapist said in order to cause triangulation. 

Beware of this maneuver, and when he says "my therapist said YOU sound like a narcissist!"

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Sep 23, 2021

After an argument or conflict, your partner is able to move on and forget about it while you are stuck stewing and seething over the whole thing. Then you are told you need to 'get over it' by your partner, and yet, you can't seem to just let it go. Why is this? 

Press play on this episode for why this happens and what needs to happen to truly move past conflicts or emotionally hurtful or abusive incidents. 

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Sep 17, 2021

The more we focus on the problem, the more w are stuck in the problem. Nothing changes until you change your approach! Let's come together to discover solutions that will actually move you forward.

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Sep 17, 2021

If I could speak in front of all the women in the world who are living in narcissistic abuse dynamics, this is what I would tell them NOT to do. 

Ready to step into your transformation and healing? 

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Sep 9, 2021

Welcome to season 3 of the AW Podcast!

For more be sure to follow me over at @awakeningwomensupport on Instagram and Facebook 

Join my weekly newsletter for updates and inspo to keep you growing HERE

Jul 13, 2021

I'll be back in September with brand new episodes!

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By purchasing my courses and joining the ETCE mentoring program, you’re making it possible for weekly podcast episodes to continue. Thank you so much for your support.

 

Purchase the Awakening Women Transformation Collection 

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Get on the ETCE waitlist 

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Jul 1, 2021

>>Join End The Cycle Evolve<<

We all have personal power, some of us choose to give it away, but we always have a choice each day for how we will move forward with our lives. Activating your personal power starts with choosing to act in the areas you have control over. 

Follow @awakeningwomensupport on Instagram and Facebook 

By purchasing courses and joining the ETCE mentoring program with Leanne Oaten, your podcast host, you’re making it possible for weekly episodes to continue. Thank you for your support.

 

Purchase the Awakening Women Transformation Collection 

https://soulworkholisticcounselling.vipmembervault.com/products/courses/view/27

 

Join my 6 month in-depth coaching and mentorship program, End The Cycle Evolve

Jun 24, 2021

Lets talk again about sex as it pertains to abuse and violation of women's rights to say no without coercion, pressure and emotional manipulation. This subject is not discussed enough in this space, and I want to address this prevalent issue so that women can start setting boundaries around their bodies and sexuality. 

Additional episodes referenced: 

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For more follow @awakeningwomensupport on Instagram and Facebook 

 

By purchasing courses and joining the ETCE mentoring program, you’re making it possible for these weekly episodes to continue. Thank you so much for your support.

 

Purchase the Awakening Women Transformation Collection https://soulworkholisticcounselling.vipmembervault.com/products/courses/view/27

 

Join my 6 month in-depth coaching and mentorship program, End The Cycle Evolve: leanneoaten.com/evolve

 

Watch my free Relationship Reset Masterclass 

Jun 17, 2021

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There comes a point where you have nothing left to say. You've talked, and talked, and explained and pushed your point so much, you feel like you can't have one more circular maddening, crazymaking interaction with your partner.

This is your opportunity to step into a new way because this means you see what you've been doing isn't working.

When we get to this point, we are often ready to do something different and take radical steps to get out of the situation and dynamic. 

Follow @awakenignwomensupport on Instagram and Facebook

By purchasing courses and joining the ETCE mentoring program, you’re making it possible for these weekly episodes to continue. Thank you so much for your support.

 

Purchase the Awakening Women Transformation Collection 

https://soulworkholisticcounselling.vipmembervault.com/products/courses/view/27

 

Purchase the Women and Money Audio Course 

https://soulworkholisticcounselling.vipmembervault.com/products/courses/view/46

 

Purchase the Own Your Power Bootcamp

https://soulworkholisticcounselling.vipmembervault.com/products/courses/view/44

 

Jun 10, 2021

Get the details to join End The Cycle Evolve Program 

Register for the Live Masterclass 

In this episode, I'm interviewing a woman who joined ETC last year to share her story with you on how her leading the change made her husband face what he needed to change in order to win her back into the relationship AFTER they were already separated. 

*The name of the treatments mentioned in this interview were edited out because I am not affiliated or familiar with them, and do not endorse programs or treatments I can not personally recommend. You will notice a place where there is a gap in the interview, and this is why. 

For more follow @awakeningwomensupport on Instagram and Facebook 

By purchasing courses and joining the ETCE mentoring program, you’re making it possible for these weekly episodes to continue. Thank you so much for your support.

 

Purchase the Awakening Women Transformation Collection 

https://soulworkholisticcounselling.vipmembervault.com/products/courses/view/27

 

Purchase the Women and Money Audio Course 

https://soulworkholisticcounselling.vipmembervault.com/products/courses/view/46

 

Purchase the Own Your Power Bootcamp

https://soulworkholisticcounselling.vipmembervault.com/products/courses/view/44

Jun 10, 2021

>> Join the upcoming Relationship Reset Masterclass 

In this episode, we're talking about the fog that can set in when things feel 'normal' and why this often doesn't mean change is happening.

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