This one builds off of what we talked about in previous episodes on patriarchy and physical boundaries, in this episode I'm focusing solely on when you have an aversion to sex with your abusive partner. This doesn't apply to all women in these relationships, but many women are struggling with this and aren't getting the help and guidance they need.
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I get occasional push back on occasion because what I speak and share is directed at women in a heterosexual relationship.
In this episode, I'm laying down the law about who I'm here to help, who I am not here to help, and why I chose to focus in on this one area of relationship.
We can all go into blame, but it is the most disempowering state we can live from, because when we blame we hand over our power to change ourselves and our lives. Leanne also shares a powerful passage from Matt Kahn on how removing blame and refusing to take the blame, creates inner peace and happiness.
Every thought you think and every word you speak is creating your future. Choose wisely. In this episode, learn why it is so important to be mindful of the thoughts and words you give energy to, and how to start creating your life from a more intentional place.
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Do you pay attention to the signs and 'coincidences' that are guiding you? In this episode, Leanne shares her experience with using Universal, nature, and animal signs as messengers, and shares how you can start to do the same.
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If you are in a relationship with a narcissistic partner and tend to attract takers and energy vampires into your life, you likely have unhealthy codependent traits and patterns. In this episode, Leanne is talking about your role as the codependent and what you need to do to step out of that pattern in your intimate relationship.
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In this episode, Leanne is talking about owning your triggers, what offends you, and what irritates you about others. As long as we're allowing others to trigger us, we are draining our power.
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In this episode, I'm offering some food for thought on what to do if you're ready to leave the relationship and your partner says he wants to do the work to change.
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All we have control over is how we choose to respond or react to what is going on around us. In this #randominsights episode Leanne unfiltered (with swear words, so mind little ears) talks about:
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I've been having this conversation on Instagram and in our Podcast discussion group on Facebook this week, and so many women have shared their negative experiences working with a counsellor who inappropriately managed the situation. This is such a big issue, and in this episode I am sharing 4 things you can do to be part of the solution.
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A little pivot in the conversation with this episode, today I'm sharing 10 things I am currently doing to stay well and nourish my body, mind, and soul each day.
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I have had this question come up several times in the past week, so I decided to do a quickie bonus episode to address it for you guys here.
The Q: What if both are trying to defend their boundaries, each person believes they're right and just standing ground on their boundaries?
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I get this question often: I think he is narcissistic, but sometimes he can be so wonderful and amazing, I see the good. How do I know if he's a narcissist?
In this episode, I'm breaking down 10 ways to know if what you're experiencing is narcissistic abuse and points toward your partner having narcissistic tendencies and traits.
1) Crazymaking communication
2) Entitled and selfish behaviour
3) WTF moments are a regular occurence
4 You experience frequent confusion regarding the relationship and his behaviour
5) Headspinning playback of interactions
6) You are consumed by him and the relationship
7) When your up he's down, when you're down he's up
8) You feel crazy
9) You are depressed, anxious, exhausted
10) You have Adrenal, thyroid and hormone/PMS issues
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In this episode I'm talking about how women must wake up to the roles we have taken on we no longer want to take on. Do you feel like all the cooking, cleaning, childcare, housekeeping, laundry, and all the things in between are your job?
Get ready, this episode is firey, real, raw and unedited. There are swear words, so listen with earbuds if you have little ones around!
Episodes referenced:
EP 220. Stuck is an Illusion| 5 Reasons You Feel Stuck and How to Shift Your State
Ep167: When You Don't Want Sex with Your Partner
Ep183: Physical Boundaries in Your Relationship
Ep221. Becoming Financially Empowered| Why Self Trust is More Important Than Trust for Others
Ep159: Financial Empowerment and Creating Your Own Income
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Join me for another edition of the AW podcast as I am sharing 5 ways codependency blocks our emotional freedom, empowerment, and resiliency.
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I also discuss how we become trapped in our lives and circumstances when we allow anxiety and fear to hold us back.
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This episode turned in to me sharing my money empowerment and business journey, and we segway into how to know if you lack self-trust, and why self-trust is more important than trusting others when it comes to money and other areas of your life.
Remember that you know yourself better than anyone, and you are more than capable of making your own decisions!
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I hear so much from women that they feel stuck, so in this episode, I'm covering 5 big reasons I see women staying stuck, as well as some tips on how to get UNstuck.
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In this episode, I'm talking about the payoffs we get as over-functioning women in a relationship with an under-functioning partner.
I also share a quick overview of what we do inside of ETC.
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I've got some exciting new topics coming up for you on boundaries, empaths, HSP's and INFJ personality, so stay tuned for more on that.
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In this episode, I'm addressing something we all have, HABITS. Our habits either build us up, or break us down, so we need to be aware of how we cope with difficult emotions, and if those habits are adding to our life or taking away from our thriving.
Awareness is the first step to transformation.
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In this episode, I'm answering a listener question: "The Narc in my life has begun attacking my therapist ie: I don’t think she is good for you, putting ideas in your head, she twists what actually happens, etc, etc. Is this common for a Narc?"
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This episode is a recording of a recent Facebook live I did in our private community, and it is so important I wanted to add it to the show so everyone can benefit.
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If you are choosing to stay in the relationship at this point, it's important to consider all sides to make a conscious and informed decision based on all the information you have available to you. In this episode, I'm sharing 4 benefits and 4 drawbacks for staying, including a bonus tip for tapping into your higher self to find the answers.
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Have you been stuck in the same place of relationship limbo for what seems like your entire relationship? In this episode, we're talking about how to get out of the limbo trap - even if you aren't ready to leave yet with one mindset shift. We CAN change how we feel by working with the mental loops that keep us trapped.
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