In this episode, Kate Anthony and I discuss the barriers women face when they are considering divorce including finances, co-parenting, dating, and falling into other toxic relationships.
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After taking the summer off, Awakening Women Podcast is back with a new vibe! We are focusing on the work YOU need to do to get out of the unhealthy relationship patterns you've felt stuck in forever.
We are ending the HERO role (Helping, Enabling, Rescuing, and Overfunctioning) in our relationships so that we can live our lives from a more self-focused, balanced, and grounded place.
When we are attached to the outside we are detached from our inside.
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If you ask yourself if it's really that bad, or if you're being abused, this is the episode you MUST listen to!
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Learn 6 disempowering thoughts you are probably thinking on repeat that are giving your power away in your relationship, and how to shift them to GROW and EVOLVE forward instantly!
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When you're dealing with an abusive partner who uses covert abuse and manipulation, who also switches on the 'nice guy' behavior, you can forget who you're really dealing with.
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We hear a lot these days about "the narcissist". And, while it is important to understand what you're dealing with, we can see years trying to figure out WHO we are dealing with, especially when the behaviors shift and change abruptly, leaving you questioning everything.
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In this episode Leanne shares why you never feel heard or understood in your relationship, and how this defense tactic is part of crazymaking communication.
Are there signs you may not be ready to leave your relationship? Yes! You've seen the lists of reasons you need to level, but have you considered why you may still have work to do before you make that leap?
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Do you avoid being alone with your spouse? Leanne breaks down why this is, and how this also impacts children over time.
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In this episode, Leanne shares a message for women who feel at rock bottom with their relationships and life.
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In this episode, Leanne shares why she doesn't like the term 'reactive abuse' and offers a different perspective.
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In this episode, Leanne breaks down what the term 'flying monkeys' really means and what you must do to protect yourself from others who aren't standing with you against the abusive partner.
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There are predictable and consistent things you can expect if you're in a relationship with a partner who exhibits strong narcissistic traits and abusive behaviours. You don't need a label of NPD to know you're experiencing narcissistic abuse!
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You're not asking for too much, you're just expecting it from someone who is unable to rise to your level and step up as a real partner.
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Many women carry a lot of shame about not being able to leave a covert narcissistic relationship, and today I want to give you permission to let that go. The shame is compounded by outsiders shouting from the rooftops that your only option is to leave and go no contact. That isn't necessarily the best advice for every woman.
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Learn 4 mental traps of narcissistic abuse that every woman experiences that keep her feeling stuck, trapped, and unable to change her situation. Follow @awakeningwomensupport on Instagram and Facebook
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In this episode, we're talking about how women carry the load when it comes to parenting and the children's needs when with an entitled, selfish, narcissistic partner.
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I get questions often from women who are trying to diagnose their partner with avoidant attachment as a way to make sense of the strange behaviour they are experiencing. In this episode, I want to clarify the difference between the two.
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New Monday quickie episodes! In these quick episodes (under 10 minutes) I'll be shining light on one specific behavior, trait, tactic, or phrase you'll hear from a narcissistic partner.
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New Monday quickie episodes! In these quick episodes I'll be shining light on one specific behavior, trait, tactic, or phrase you'll hear from a narcissistic partner.
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Covert abusers are not any less dangerous than the more obvious abusers. In fact, they're even more dangerous because the abuse is happening in plain sight while nobody else sees it.
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New Monday quickie episodes! In these quick episodes (under 10 minutes) I'll be shining light on one specific behavior, trait, tactic, or phrase you'll hear from a narcissistic partner.
I love piecing together themes and patterns I see with women who are in my programs, and in these quick but mighty episodes, I'll be bringing these insights to you so that you can awaken and evolve beyond the cycle.
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This episode is not meant to diagnose your partner, however, if you can check off any of these burning red flags as a consistent, repetitive pattern of behavior over time with your partner, you can be sure he falls somewhere on the spectrum of narcissism and is definitely behaving in toxic ways that are hindering your wellbeing.
The key here is that this is a pervasive and continual and predictable pattern of behavior, not occasional errors or 'narcissistic moments'.
If you're questioning if he's a narcissist, or if you're actually being abused, this episode is intended to help you stop questioning, and start taking empowered action toward what's next.
The longer you continue in the cycle as it is, the more damage occurs to your mental and physical health.
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