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Awakening Women Podcast

Leanne Oaten is a former registered professional Counsellor with an educational background in Counselling Psychology with 12 + years of experience guiding and coaching women to rise above what is holding them back from truly flourishing. Topics covered range from recognizing narcissism, protecting yourself from dangerous behaviors, and finding freedom from abusive relationships. She offers coaching and guidance for how to disentangle the cycle of covert intimate relationship abuse and manipulation with a narcissistic partner with a unique, no-bullshit, empowered approach. Topics discussed: Covert narcissistic Abuse Codependent patterns Self Healing Navigating life with a narcissistic partner Understanding the tactics and patterns Dating safely Finding healthier love For info about her programs visit leanneoaten.com Connect with her on Instagram: @awakeningwomenofficial Join the Awakening Women Support community on Facebook by searching #awakeningwomensupport in the Facebook search bar.
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Now displaying: August, 2020
Aug 28, 2020

Join the upcoming Own Your Power video series. This is specifically created for women who are living in limbo in a relationship and are experiencing covert emotional or narcissistic abuse who want to know the next steps to take. Sign up here.

This episode is a recording of a recent Facebook live I did in our private community, and it is so important I wanted to add it to the show so everyone can benefit. 

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Aug 25, 2020

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If you are choosing to stay in the relationship at this point, it's important to consider all sides to make a conscious and informed decision based on all the information you have available to you. In this episode, I'm sharing 4 benefits and 4 drawbacks for staying, including a bonus tip for tapping into your higher self to find the answers. 

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Aug 21, 2020

End the Cycle runs 3 times per year, and the next 30 day group intensive begins on September 21st! Make sure you're on the waitlist here so you don't miss out. 

 

Have you been stuck in the same place of relationship limbo for what seems like your entire relationship? In this episode, we're talking about how to get out of the limbo trap - even if you aren't ready to leave yet with one mindset shift. We CAN change how we feel by working with the mental loops that keep us trapped. 

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Aug 19, 2020

In this episode, we're discussing the Law of Polarity and how this pertains to the narcissistic abuse/codependency dynamic. Many women reach out to me and ask "am I the narcissist"?

We all have some narcissism, however, codependent traits can look similar to narcissistic behavior traits. 

Disclaimer: I am not saying the two are the same in that intent is everything. One side has the intent to have control and have power over, the other side oftentimes has the desire to feel safe, in control (to feel safe).

Get on the ETC waitlist here.  

Aug 14, 2020

This episode is piggybacking off of ep 209 where I talk about when you bring up the issues in the relationship to him and he says you need to change too. 

In this episode, we are talking about what work it is you do need to be doing, and how to respond to this when he says this to you. 

Next ETC Group Intensive runs September 2020!

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Aug 11, 2020

I'm fired up in this episode, and what I thought I should say (including censoring my words) to address the social media reactions I received from a post on my Instagram feed this week- is not actually what I want to say. There is zero filtering happening here because this is something I am so passionate about!

I have zero tolerance for social media bullies, and others attacking those who have a different viewpoint.

 

Warning: There are some F words in this episode so listen with headphones if little ears are around!

This episode covers:

  • Victim-blaming vs taking self-responsibility for our life
  • The DV community approaches things from a victim/perpetrator stance, which doesn't work for every woman 
  • Why I set social media boundaries and block disrespectful comments
  • Everything is open for interpretation and perception 
  • What being emotionally reactive and triggered actually means 
  • Social media shaming 
  • Harassment, character attacks, slandering, personal judgments, and verbal abuse online (or anywhere) is never justified 

Everyone is free to hold their own beliefs and views, including me. 

If you're with me and are ready to move toward healing, peace, and empowerment, get on the End The Cycle waitlist for the September session. 

As always, ways to work with me can be found at leanneoaten.com

 

Aug 7, 2020

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When you bring your desired changes to your partner and he tells you that YOU are also abusive and that you need to change too, how do you respond? 

Those well-meaning people and counsellors that tell you "it takes 2 giving 50/50 to make it work" are not understanding the full picture. 

Tune in to learn how you can respond to your partner when he says "you need to change too" and why the popular advice that relationships require 50-50 is not true. 

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Aug 5, 2020

Boundaries won’t work without accountability and consequences when they are broken. If you don’t follow through with the consequence it’s a request or preference, not a boundary.

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