In this episode, I'm answering a listener question: "The Narc in my life has begun attacking my therapist ie: I don’t think she is good for you, putting ideas in your head, she twists what actually happens, etc, etc. Is this common for a Narc?"
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This episode is a recording of a recent Facebook live I did in our private community, and it is so important I wanted to add it to the show so everyone can benefit.
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If you are choosing to stay in the relationship at this point, it's important to consider all sides to make a conscious and informed decision based on all the information you have available to you. In this episode, I'm sharing 4 benefits and 4 drawbacks for staying, including a bonus tip for tapping into your higher self to find the answers.
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Have you been stuck in the same place of relationship limbo for what seems like your entire relationship? In this episode, we're talking about how to get out of the limbo trap - even if you aren't ready to leave yet with one mindset shift. We CAN change how we feel by working with the mental loops that keep us trapped.
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In this episode, we're discussing the Law of Polarity and how this pertains to the narcissistic abuse/codependency dynamic. Many women reach out to me and ask "am I the narcissist"?
We all have some narcissism, however, codependent traits can look similar to narcissistic behavior traits.
Disclaimer: I am not saying the two are the same in that intent is everything. One side has the intent to have control and have power over, the other side oftentimes has the desire to feel safe, in control (to feel safe).
This episode is piggybacking off of ep 209 where I talk about when you bring up the issues in the relationship to him and he says you need to change too.
In this episode, we are talking about what work it is you do need to be doing, and how to respond to this when he says this to you.
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I'm fired up in this episode, and what I thought I should say (including censoring my words) to address the social media reactions I received from a post on my Instagram feed this week- is not actually what I want to say. There is zero filtering happening here because this is something I am so passionate about!
I have zero tolerance for social media bullies, and others attacking those who have a different viewpoint.
Warning: There are some F words in this episode so listen with headphones if little ears are around!
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When you bring your desired changes to your partner and he tells you that YOU are also abusive and that you need to change too, how do you respond?
Those well-meaning people and counsellors that tell you "it takes 2 giving 50/50 to make it work" are not understanding the full picture.
Tune in to learn how you can respond to your partner when he says "you need to change too" and why the popular advice that relationships require 50-50 is not true.
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Boundaries won’t work without accountability and consequences when they are broken. If you don’t follow through with the consequence it’s a request or preference, not a boundary.
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In this episode, I am answering the question that was posted by an Awakening Women Community member: "Is there really hope for narcs to change?"
This is the big question in so many women's minds, so I decided to answer this Q as directly as possible in this episode.
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In this episode I am discussing the effects of living in a relationship with a chronic gaslighter, and how you can stay in your power during gaslighting attempts.
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Episodes referenced: 185 + 186
Intense feelings of guilt are a common experience for women who are in a narcissistic relationship. Whether still in the relationship, or exiting the guilt can cripple you, if you let it.
The grieving process begins the moment you awaken to the truth about the abuse you've been experiencing, and often continues long after you've left. In this episode I am talking about why this is the case, and how you can help yourself so that it doesn't consume you and take over your life and ability to function.
Pain is part of life, suffering is optional. When you choose to stay committed to suffering, you will find your entire life is full of suffering.
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Let's talk about financial abuse, and how you can take your power back around money.
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This is a raw and unedited episode of me chatting with you during my afternoon hike. If you're a mother, and are in a narcissistic abusive relationship, this is my message to you.
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In this episode learn why you are staying stuck in the same situation and what it takes to move your life forward within the relationship you're in. Just because you're in the relationship, and don't know what to do yet, doesn't mean you have to stay in the same place.
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In this episode, I have a special guest who is sharing her journey in her very recent marriage with a narcissistic spouse, and how she had to begin learning how to trust her inner guidance.
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In this episode, I'm diving in to a statement you have heard me say if you've been with me for awhile "you can't transform your life from a victim mentality". I'm also sharing some responses from the women in our private Facebook community about what this statement means to them. It's an eye opener!
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We talk a lot about unhealthy communication, and dysfunctional dynamics here on the podcast, but when an ETC student of mine raised this question "what does healthy conflict look like"? I decided to share my thoughts on this.
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Let's talk about what keeps women feeling trapped in a toxic relationship with a narcissistic partner.
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In this episode we're diving into a topic I hear so many women experiencing in a narcissistic relationship. Passive aggressive behavior is a covert abuse tactic, and it can be hard to spot, yet you know something feels 'off'.
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In this short episode, I am sharing my take on what "love bombing" is. You hear this in a lot of places, alternating with with "hoovering" (which I also go into in episode 178). Let's simplify and break this down.
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In this episode I'm diving into a story from one of our Awakening Women and ETC members that perfectly illustrates what the cycle looks and feels like when you're in it. I'm breaking down what each behavior tactic is, and defining them so you can see exactly what this looks like when it's happening.
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